Sticking With Your Teen: Having to Say Youโ€™re Sorry

By Focus on the Family Design vector created by macrovector - http://www.freepik.com The most powerful words we can say to our kids ("I'm sorry") are also the most humbling - and sometimes the most painful. โ€œIโ€™m sorry. What I did was wrong.โ€ Those words are rarely heard by anyone. They are heard even less by … Continue reading Sticking With Your Teen: Having to Say Youโ€™re Sorry →

Thoughts Between Potty Training and Life360

Written by Cynthia Yanof Photo by JESHOOTS.com from Pexels Our oldest got her driverโ€™s license recently and is navigating the roads on her own. Itโ€™s fairly gut-wrenching when you spend your whole life trying to keep your precious babies safe, and, one day, with a casual wave, they drive off to school leaving you standing … Continue reading Thoughts Between Potty Training and Life360 →

If Your Teen Has Broken Your Heart

Written by Paige Mayhew Photo by NEOSiAM 2020 from Pexels Heartbreak.  Of all the things on my โ€œno funโ€ list, heartbreak sure takes a top spot.  I was reminded of the intensity of teenage love and heartache during a recent conversation with a momma friend. We chuckled and grimaced as we swapped stories. In those … Continue reading If Your Teen Has Broken Your Heart →

Praying for Our Kids: Time Management

Written by Cynthia Yanof Photo by freestocks.org from Pexels Today we begin week 9 of praying our kids through the school year. This week we are praying specifically for our kids to understand the importance of time management. Our childrenโ€™s days, like ours, are filled with so many demands for their time. If we teach … Continue reading Praying for Our Kids: Time Management →

Preparing Your Teen for the Work World

By Paul White Helping your teens build a foundation for how to work well and to be better prepared for their future. One day my teenage twin sons decided they didnโ€™t want to help around the house. One said, โ€œAll we do is work! We go to school, then to practice. We come home and have … Continue reading Preparing Your Teen for the Work World →

Strong-Willed Women Mothering Strong-Willed Children

By Cynthia Tobias Photo by Retha Ferguson from Pexels If youโ€™re a strong-willed woman, it can be tough to parent a younger version of yourself. But you also have a definite advantageโ€”you know what itโ€™s like to be a strong-willed child.  โ€œMy strong-willed child and I are like two goats fighting on a cliff โ€” … Continue reading Strong-Willed Women Mothering Strong-Willed Children →

How to Help Your Kids Dodge Digital Distractions

By Jonathan McKee Photo by Julia M Cameron from Pexels Find four ways to connect with your tweens in the midst of 24/7 video game/social media accessibility. โ€œWhy does my son waste his life playing Fortnite? If I donโ€™t monitor him, heโ€™ll play for 12 hours straight!โ€ โ€œHow can I get my daughter to realize … Continue reading How to Help Your Kids Dodge Digital Distractions →

George Floyd: A Conversation with My Teenagers

โ€œDad, what are your thoughts about the George Floyd situation and all the chaos?โ€ This was the question my 15 year old son asked me at lunch yesterday. I immediately realized in all my reading, watching, and evaluating the situation I never actually talked about it with my two teenage boys. What follows is simply … Continue reading George Floyd: A Conversation with My Teenagers →

How to Prepare Your Child for Middle School

By Sue Chan Acuรฑa By Cynthia Tobias Photo by Julia M Cameron from Pexels Plan ahead and make adjustments to pave the way for a strong transition from elementary to middle school. Many parents say, โ€œI knew middle school was coming, but I didnโ€™t expect things to change so fast.โ€ They are caught off guard … Continue reading How to Prepare Your Child for Middle School →

Parenting Isnโ€™t Paint By Numbers

By Connie Albers Photo by Vitรณria Santos from Pexels As our kids become teens, weโ€™ve already established many of the parenting basics. But the masterpiece isnโ€™t finished, and our role as parents is changing. You want to paint a mural in your room? When my daughter Jeannie was on the cusp of her teen years, … Continue reading Parenting Isnโ€™t Paint By Numbers →